It’s always great when you find yourself in a happy relationship, but how do you know when it’s time to step things up and take that relationship to the next level? While that can definitely be a hard decision to make, some folks on Reddit are trying to help others take that next step.
A Reddit user recently posed the question, “What are some GREEN flags early on in dating that the relationship should become serious?,” and folks were happy to share their thoughts.
“Green flags” include:
- "Being able to make each other laugh. Understanding the other person’s sense of humor is critical in long relationships."
- "When you are around them, you feel like you're the best version of yourself/the person you want to be. They aren't changing you so much as naturally bringing out your preferred version of your genuine self."
- "Did they return their shopping cart to the cart return after grocery shopping? I stand by shopping cart theory as a good indicator of a person's moral compass."
- "If they treat you well when it all goes sideways. Many people are good at being loving when life is easy — their true selves show when life is hard."
- "You genuinely enjoy one another's company during dull moments. Life's full of them and you are going to want a partner who you can enjoy them with."
- They're okay with spending time apart. A significant other that can spend their own time alone and doesn't absolutely need you to be happy is a major green flag."
- "The ability to apologize. If your partner never sees their faults, it'll never work."
- "Comfortable silences. If you can enjoy each other’s company without needing a distraction, you’re usually golden."
- "They remember small details from your conversations. It means they pay attention to you and what your interests are."
- You can go on a road trip together and still like each other at the end of it."
When did you know that your S.O. was a keeper?
Source: Buzzfeed